Important Notice: Hello, my little bunnies! Unfortunately, the payment processor we use to make purchases is temporarily down. I ask for your patience while we move to get things working ASAP! Tldr: Women have rape fantasies because their brains cope with trauma and stress through sex, so rid yourself of that ill-gained guilt! I would hope that, in real life, we’re all working toward normalizing consent and gender equity. The stories published to this site are strictly fetish erotica, and not politics. Please, keep what I’m writing purely in the realm of fiction.
Now, here’s the longer version.
I found myself consistently wondering why do people have rape fantasies and is this normal?
I felt guiltly and shameful when I first began my journey as a writer of this type of content, but as challenging and burdensome as this space may be, I feel… free?
I write erotic sex stories online under the pen name Devin Lacey. My erotica mostly deal with incest, daddy dom-little girl relationships, and non consent.
I’ve come to the conclusion that we don’t really choose our kinks. Our kinks choose us, and the deviances that our society views as taboo are most likely to become fetishized as taboo. Our brains are ridiculously complex. For reasons unknown to me, our brains prefer to cope with trauma and stress through sex.
It’s very common for us survivors of sexual assault to have rape fantasies. That does not mean we actually want to be raped – it means we’re coping with the trauma through sexual thoughts and desires. It’s a way of reclaiming power and healing from trauma.
I didn’t think so when I wrote my very first erotic story called, Stolen Virgin, and gaslit myself for making “excuses” for why it was okay to publish. I’m soo happy to say I’ve come a long way and now have hundreds of stories out, most of which have been banned from large retailers. Oops!
Speaking of censorship, there are many controversial topics being challenged on social media surrounding sexual deviances based on gender politics.
Gender politics, also known as “gender wars,” have been a heavily debated and discussed topic for decades. It refers to the power dynamics and inequalities between men and women in society, particularly in the political arena. With the rise of social media—from the girlies voicing their opinions on Tik Tok, and the podcast bros standing their ground on Youtube—gender politics has become even more prevalent and has captured the attention of the public.
It is no surprise that many women are tired of carrying the heavy weight of decision-making and responsibility in their personal and professional lives. Women are expected to balance their careers, family life, and societal expectations, often at the expense of their own well-being. This constant juggling act can be mentally and emotionally exhausting, leaving many women feeling burnt out and overwhelmed. At times, it can feel like a thankless job.
I sympathize with women who desperately yearn to be praised—who turn to smutty sex stories to relinquish control, even if it means being rewarded for “sexually depraved” acts in a fictional world.
In these stories, they are in control, they are desired and obsessed over. They are not judged for their taboo desires or rape fantasies. It’s a way for them to feel liberated and explore their sexuality without any real-life consequences.
That doesn’t mean that women want to be oppressed by men, or think they’re inferior. All it means is that we need to take a public stand to defend the rights of women. We need to understand as a collective that the need for a release or an escape is only natural. It’s healthy.
Some may argue that these stories perpetuate harmful and problematic ideas about women and their sexuality. But the truth is, there is no harm in consenting adults engaging in fictional depictions of problematic topics. These stories offer a safe space for women to explore their desires and fantasies without any real-life repercussions. It’s a form of escapism, just like any other form of entertainment.
As a writer of erotic sex stories myself, hiding behind a pen name, I can attest to the fact that these stories are often ridiculous in many respects. But at the same time, they are all too plausible. In a society where women are constantly objectified and sexualized, it’s not hard to imagine a world where women are caressed and loved on for their sexual submission.
It’s important to reiterate that women do face an unacceptably high level of sexual harassment and sexual violence. Women do find themselves in humiliating and unsafe situations and it’s a reality that women have to deal with on a daily basis. While these stories may seem far-fetched and unrealistic, the sad truth is that they are not too far from the truth for many women.
Moreover, women are not just facing these challenges in one particular country or culture. The fight for women’s rights is a global one. From the developed world to the developing world, women are struggling to keep hard-won human rights and freedoms. In some countries, women are not even allowed to drive or go out in public without a male guardian. These are the harsh realities that women around the world have to face. In the face of all these challenges, it’s only normal and healthy for women to seek an outlet for their stress and frustration. And if that outlet happens to be smutty sex stories, then so be it. It’s a way for women to reclaim their agency and power in a world that often tries to strip it away from them.
It is not something to be looked down upon or judged. It’s a natural response to the challenges and struggles that women face in their daily lives. Instead of shaming women for their choices, we should all take a public stand defending the rights of women and working towards a more equal and just society for all.
It is crucial for each individual to take proactive steps toward implementing this transformation. In a world where we can enjoy our kinky fantasies with safety, respect and the empowerment to pursue our interests without fear of being shamed, assaulted, or having the expression of our sexuality taken as consent to having someone else’s imposed upon us.
In real life, the only tolerable footing for sexual or romantic interaction is positive, enthusiastic, informed consent.
People who want to be sexual need to be free to consensually do so. People who don’t want that, or don’t want it in that form, or with that person, or at that time, or under those conditions… need to have that respected unconditionally, and without them needing to have to say it twice.
The idea that women turn to erotic sex stories online—as a way to relinquish control and find an outlet for their insurmountable stress—is too small of an occurrence to be ostracized for. The ill-gained guilt and shame of being placed in a position I didn’t ask for took me years to get over and now, and for the most part, I feel free to express myself.
I would LOVE to recreate that feeling for the little bunnies in my small corner of the internet! Enjoy my stories but remember that they are not your manifesto or anyone else’s.
Heal your trauma and never forget to love on yourself consistently. Keep being you!
Thank you sooo much for reading this! xoxo~
